Hiccups

For a few months I’ve been feeling some rhythmic movement in my lower abdomen and never quite knew what it was, I guess I assumed that baby Frisco already had his coordination down and was practicing some kind of tap dance routine for his big debut???  Until a while back someone asked me if I started feeling hiccups yet? Ah ha! It dawned on me, that’s what it is. There are some times when there is no movement except for the hiccups and other times he is squirming the entire time he has the hiccups, I don’t blame him I squirm when I have the hiccups too, it is kind of annoying.

Last night I was wide awake as usual and when I finally lied down to go to sleep, the hiccups started.  Really…the entire time we were watching a movie earlier he was still, while I was getting ready for bed, he was napping, while I sat in bed talking to Justin watching TV and waiting for sleep to take over he didn’t move at all.  Once I turned out the light and snuggled under the sheets, he woke up…with the hiccups.  Guess it wasn’t time for me to go to bed yet.  So I started thinking, there are so many remedies for getting rid of hiccups like holding your breath, scaring them out of you, drinking water from the opposite side of the cup while bending over, etc…which led me to thinking, how do you get rid of hiccups while the baby is in the womb?  I am sure if you asked Google they would give you all kinds of suggestions, but I actually think it is cute and don’t mind it (even if it keeps me up at night).  It gives me reassurance that all is well.  Even Justin gets a kick out of feeling the rhythmic movements and seeing my belly jump every few seconds.  It’s a whole new world we are exploring these days!

I had an OB appointment today and all is well. She measured my belly and we listened to his heartbeat and everything measures/sounds great!  We chatted for a few minutes and she sent me on my way. I go back in 2 weeks.  It’s kind of crazy that I wait 30-45 minutes to see the doctor for a quick 5-10 minute visit.  But I guess when you are a normal boring pregnant patient that is the norm, and I’ll take normal and boring over complicated and interesting when it comes to this pregnancy!

And here’s a 32 week 5 day belly shot from my point of view!

Dog Thanksgiving

Another Thanksgiving has come and gone…I love the fall season and time spent with family, all the yummy food and laughter around the dinner table.  We are very blessed in many ways and I have so much to be thankful for.  Most importantly, I am so thankful for my husband, there is no such thing as a perfect marriage, or a perfect person, but I do think we are perfect for each other.  Yes, there are times when he frustrates me and I know I frustrate him…but what trumps those times are all the wonderful things that he does.  The supportive man that he is.  The way he makes me laugh and always tries to make me smile when I am in a bad mood.  He takes care of me.  He listens (sometimes).  He understands my stubbornness (or maybe he just tolerates it). He is compassionate and caring and I know he will be a fantastic role model for our son.  Of course I am so thankful for our baby boy growing inside of me, I am thankful for an easy pregnancy, and I can’t wait to meet him!

We headed to Palm Desert for Thanksgiving.  The warm holiday (it was 85 degrees) was spread out over 3 days of celebrating with friends and family and…our dogs.  We are a dog loving family.  I didn’t get a single picture of people over the 3 days, but I did take pictures of the dogs.  We were trying to get them all together for one picture, but that didn’t really happen, so here they are in a few pictures.

First up we have Joyce feeding her grand dogs – Callie, Pichu & Apollo

Then there is little Leo who is blind, so he stayed safely away from the chaos.
The star of the day was 11 week old Molly.  She played, and played and played…
She even fell in the pool, we now know that she can swim…
After all the excitement she takes a nap in the comfortable hose coil
Here is one of the group attempts that includes Bogey
It appears that we have a black/white and tan/white theme with our dogs.  Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving!

It moved!

Last week I made my first after hours call to my OB.  I was having lots of pain on my ‘outer’ belly.  It started while I was at work shortly after lunchtime, I tried standing, sitting, walking around and nothing was helping.  I wasn’t too worried because I know general aches and pains are normal and I wanted to give it some time to see if it went away before I started to worry.  When I got home I took the dog for a walk and I started getting some cramps, shooting pains and my belly got really hard.  So I started wondering if this was Braxton Hicks?  I Googled the symptoms and Google told me that my symptoms could have been a wide variety of things.  Plus I’ve never been pregnant before so how am I supposed to know if I am having “upper uterine pain,” what does that feel like?? I decided to just sit down and relax for a bit and see if it stopped.  I called Justin and he was stuck in traffic on the way home, so we talked while he inched his way on the freeway.  After about 5 hours of the pain, I finally called my OB.  She said that if I continued to have the cramps and 4-6 of them in an hour timeframe then I should go to triage to get checked out.  And the pain on my outer belly was most likely just intense growing pains and the outer layer of my belly was just stretching.  Great…Justin’s response to that was, “well if you wake up in the morning with stretch marks you know why”…thanks babe.  By the time I went to bed that night the pain was subsiding and I was able to fall asleep.  The next day I woke up and all the pain was gone, and I haven’t felt it again since.  It was just weird because I haven’t had any kind of pain like that all this time, then all of a sudden this intense pain came and then it was gone the next day like it was never there.  Weird.  Anyway, other than that day, I’m still feeling good!  The only frustrating thing is not being able to get comfortable sleeping.  It’s not so much that I am not getting a full nights sleep anymore (I’ve pretty much given up on that for the next 18 years) it is just when I am ‘sleeping’ it is uncomfortable and I am constantly shifting and moving to try and get comfortable, not to mention getting up to go to the bathroom.  Oh well…it’s all worth it.

On to the point of this post, I had my follow up appointment today and all looks well! My blood pressure is good, baby’s heartbeat was 145, I asked about the decrease in the heart rate since it is usually around 150 and she said it is perfectly normal, they do want the baby’s heartbeat to start slowing down as he gets bigger.  She also said she could hear some fluctuation in his heartbeat which is also good since it is a sign of activity. She confirmed again that my glucose test was well within the normal range.  She did mention that I gained 6 pounds this last month instead of 4 (they recommend you gain 1 pound a week)…she said it is fine, I am still within the healthy range, she just doesn’t want the baby to get too big. I have a feeling he is going to be big anyway since my IVF doctor told me we had a big healthy embryo to start with.  So how am I supposed to get through this holiday season and only gain 1 pound a week?? Hmmm I don’t think this is going to work out well.  And the big news that we have been waiting for….my placenta moved!!  So no C-Section for me!! Yay!!  Now I can start worrying about my water breaking in public and the whole labor and delivery process 🙂

My OB visits will now be every 2 weeks until I get to 36 weeks then I start going every week. These weeks are going to fly by faster and faster!  My baby project these days have been finding a pediatrician, with input from my friends and my boss (who is a doctor himself) I think I have a plan figured out, but still need to call my insurance company to make sure everything is covered. Thanks for checking in!

Here’s my 30 week 5 day belly.

Talk to your girls

Remember the post I did about my Girlfriends back in July…it’s hard to believe that the 3 of us are in our 3rd trimesters now!  The other girls only have 4 weeks to go, and we’ve already had their baby showers.  I feel like time is flying by!  I had a great time at their showers.  It was so nice to get together with friends and family and share stories, play games and celebrate their upcoming arrivals.  I am so excited to meet their little girls in 4 weeks 🙂

First up was Jaime, here’s our preggo picture at her shower.
Next it was Julia’s turn. At her shower there was a photo booth set up where we added a second line to the nursery rhyme “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star…” and take a picture with our rhyme.  It was a creative, fun idea! Our rhyme says “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star look how big our bellies are”
On the subject of women getting together, enjoying each others company, sharing stories and celebrating babies…I wanted to share a post from one of my favorite bloggers Karen Russell you can read it here.  As important as it is to have a strong relationship with your spouse, it is also important to have girlfriends to share life with.  There are many different kinds of friends, some are closer than others, some you can pick up right where you left off if you haven’t seen each other for a while, some are casual, some friends you talk to every day, some know more about you than others, some are just like you or complete opposites.  No matter what kind of friendship you have I think the most important thing is that we support each other, encourage each other, lift each other up and take care of each other.  Unfortunately there are other kinds of women who are very gossipy, degrading, competitive and frankly are not really all that fun to be around.   After a night out with some girlfriends Karen had a conversation with her little girls about what kind of women they wanted to grow up to be and I just love how kids are so perceptive and observant of their surroundings, and how Karen took this opportunity to talk to them and encourage them to be those special kinds of women.  Although I am having a boy…I plan to teach him to be compassionate and caring and supportive of his friends.  And he will have a wonderful example from his father on how to treat women! As important as it is to talk to your kids about these things, I think it is also important to evaluate what kind of friend you are to the people who surround you.

I’ve said it before and I’m going to say it again.  I am so thankful for all my girlfriends, near/far, no matter how close we are, how often we see each other or talk, or if we are complete opposites. God places people in your lives for a reason and I am so blessed to have my girls.

Halloween

I know it has been a while since I’ve posted anything and I guess I don’t really have any major news to share.  So I’ll tell you all about our Halloween!  We celebrated lots of different ways.  First, was the Saturday before Halloween, we went to a costume party at a friends house.  The hostesses birthday is on Halloween, so this is obviously her favorite holiday and she pulls out all the stops when it comes to decorating, food, drinks and of course candy.  We were so busy the month before we didn’t really have time to put much thought or effort into a cool costume.  So, Justin decided to go as James Bond in honor of the new Skyfall movie coming out, but he said he was the Sean Connery James Bond not Daniel Craig.  He put on his tuxedo that he got his freshman year of college (it was pretty impressive that he still fit into it, or maybe he finally grew into it 🙂 ) He bought a bow tie and completed the look with a Martini Glass.  He tried to convince me to go as a Bond girl.  I told him they have yet to cast a pregnant woman as a Bond girl and I was not going to put on a skimpy outfit with 4 inch heels and my belly hanging out, sorry.  So I went the easy route and ordered a pregnancy Halloween shirt.  I did take my camera to the party but did not really feel like taking pictures, so all I have is this iPhone shot of the 3 preggos at the party.
On the actual day of Halloween we both went to work.  Our work environments are so different when it comes to this holiday.  At Justin’s office no one dresses up or even does anything to celebrate the occasion.  My office however…well let’s put it this way, we have a lot of kids for patients so it’s really fun for them to come to their doctors office and everyone is dressed up.  But in reality, the doctors I work for are just big kids at heart and love to dress up, sing, dance and do anything that involves large amounts of fun and Halloween is just one of the ways they can do that.  It makes for a fun day at the office!  My co-workers bring in their kids and grandkids so we can all ohhh and ahhh over their costumes as they trick or treat from office to office.  All of us girls in the research department tend to do group theme costumes.  One year we were all Disney Princesses, one year we were doing a cat study so everyone dressed up as a cat.  This year we were scrabble (or Words with Friends) tiles.  We spelled out many little words, but altogether we were AWESOME!
Here’s our group
My shirt was a hit
When we first bought our house and Halloween came around I got a Costco sized bag of candy, carved some pumpkins, put some scary movies on TV and I was ready for the trick and treaters.  We didn’t get a single one. Not.a.single.one. I was so bummed!  I asked around my neighbors who had lived here for a while and they said that the kids go to the shopping centers or to the bigger houses for the candy.  So I learned my lesson.  Since then we’ve always gone to friends houses who live in trick or treating neighborhoods for the evening.  This year was especially fun, because I was thinking that this time next year I was going to have a 9 month old.  He wont be walking yet, but I’m sure he’ll be crawling and I get to dress him up and parade him around, I can’t wait!

Hope your Halloween was fun!

Army of Women

It is safe to say that everyone either knows someone close or knows of someone who has fought or is currently fighting the battle against breast cancer.  Breast cancer is the second leading cause of cancer death in women, exceeded only by lung cancer. San Diego is one of the locations for the Susan Komen Walk for the Cure and it always brings tears to my eyes when I see these women all decked out in their pink costumes having the time of their life.  My girlfriends and I have talked about participating so many times and it always seems to creep up on us and by the time we find out when it is it is too late to sign up.  Obviously this year, I was not physically able to do it but I am determined to participate soon.  And I love seeing all the big NFL football players sporting their pink accessories every Sunday during the month of October.  When it comes to making donations, this is a cause that I never hesitate to support (hmmm I wonder how many donation requests I’ll get now…).  Awareness is a huge factor in finding a cure, not only awareness of the general public in terms of getting mammograms, the importance of early detection, lifestyle habits, etc…, but also providing facts and information to researchers to help them with their task to find a way to beat this cancer.  One of the doctors I work for forwarded me an email from Army of Women.  It is an foundation that was made possible by a grant from Avon.  Its goal is to recruit 1 million women (as of today they are at 370,212) no matter their age, race, health status, to provide their health history and partner with researchers to find out what causes breast cancer, which will lead to prevention and ultimately a cure.

Think about it…if the researchers are armed with information from 1 million women they should be able to make a huge step forward in this fight.  In honor of all the women who have fought and survived, those who are currently in battle and those we’ve lost, I signed up.  There was an online questionnaire that took about 20 minutes to complete and then every few months they will send you another questionnaire to complete.  Easy peasy.   With my recent fertility medical history, this is something that has been in the back of my mind.  I did ask my doctor and did my own research on this before we did IVF and learned that a woman is at higher risk to get cancer if she does not have children at all than if she go through fertility treatments, it is all about those lovely hormones.  When completing the initial questionnaire it opened up a whole ‘nother door when I answered the questions about fertility treatments…they like me.  So no matter what your health status is, age or race, I encourage you to check it out and sign up.  There is no cost or obligation on your part, just a little time every few months.  Join the army!

Flying Colors

On Tuesday I had my glucose screening test.  It is a standard test that every woman has to do at the start of their 3rd trimester to test for gestational diabetes.  I was not supposed to eat or drink anything really sweet for 2 hours before the test, so I figured I would do it first thing in the AM to ensure that nothing I ate or drank would throw off the results.  Upon arriving in the lab they gave me a 10 oz bottle of Limeondex, it is a clear sugary drink, and told me I had 5 minutes to drink it.  So with one eye on the clock, I got started, it actually did not taste that bad.  Apparently the lab tech thought I was taking too long and started asking me every 30 seconds after 2 minutes if I was done.  Tired of her questions, I ended up finishing it in a hurry (at 3 minutes and 15 seconds to be exact) sheesh, what happened to 5 minutes?? Then I was told not to eat or drink anything and I had to stay in the lab for 1 hour.  So I go in the back corner of the waiting room and get comfortable.  I had a bag of magazines, a book and my laptop.  The hour flew by pretty quickly and when it was up they called me back to draw my blood and I was on my way.  The Limeondex really was not that hard to get down, but it did leave a nasty aftertaste and I felt kind of gross for the rest of the morning, once I had lunch I felt better.  The next day I called my doctors office for the results and the nurses words were “Congratulations you passed with flying colors!” Whew, glad that part is over.
Next up was an ultrasound!  Yesterday I had to repeat the drink 32 oz of water an hour before and hold it (at least this time I didn’t have a lab tech hounding me every 30 seconds).  At first it is not too bad, but then as I am sitting in the waiting room waiting to be called back it hits me and it is so uncomfortable.  Then when they do call you back they start pushing the ultrasound probe thingy down on your full bladder, who makes up these rules?  Anyway, it is all worth it.  We got to see our little boy!  He  was laying on his side and moving his lips and sticking his tongue in and out.  It was so crazy to see how big he has gotten since our last ultrasound.  I have been able to physically feel how much he is growing since his movements, kicks and punches are getting more and more powerful, and my belly will randomly shift and bulge out, but to see him was a different story. I have to wait until my next doctors appointment in 2 weeks to find out the status of my placenta, so I’ll get back to you on that.

So without further adieu, here’s his profile.  Who do you think he looks like, mom or dad?
On a side note…this ultrasound is making me think about a fundraiser Justin and I went to last night for Turning Point.  Turning Point is a pregnancy resource center that is located here in San Diego.  Their goal is to prevent abortions and provide information, free pregnancy tests, counseling, support and resources to those women who are planning to have an abortion due to an unintended pregnancy.  There are many reasons why women decide to have an abortion, some of them being the fear of parenting alone, not being able to afford it, unsure of how they will finish school or work with a child, no insurance or simply being too young.  Turning point will offer information on how they can make life work and get around these fears with a child and provide them with information about adoption if they feel that they simply can not raise their child.  They also provide counseling to women who are living with the regret of having an abortion.  This is a wonderful organization and it was so amazing to listen to the speakers sharing stories of what Turning Point has accomplished, there were real clients there with their babies and a video of moms talking about how grateful they were to Turning Point for helping them to make a real educated decision to keep their child and you could see the love and joy in their eyes as they held their squirming baby in their arms.  One amazing accomplishment that Turning Point has done is their mobile ultrasound vehicle.  They have a large RV that has been outfitted with an ultrasound machine and a place to meet and counsel with women.  88% of women decide to keep their baby after seeing them on the ultrasound screen.  That is huge!  Just that fact alone, seeing your child on the screen creates an immediate bond and there is no way anyone can deny that is a real life growing inside you.  This ultrasound vehicle is such a huge step forward in preventing abortions.

We were at this fundraiser just a few hours after my ultrasound appointment so these emotions were very close to my heart.  I have never been in a situation where I was considering an abortion, but the exact opposite.  I remember thinking over the past few years, how can all these women be having abortions when there are so many other women who are struggling to get pregnant.  There’s always two sides to a story or two extremes in opposite directions.  Through this process I’ve learned that you can’t really say what you would do in a certain situation until you are in the middle of that situation.  There was a time when I thought there was no way I would do IVF, but I did.  There are so many women out there who plan to have an abortion but once they get a little love, support and see their baby with an ultrasound, make the decision to choose life. I am so thankful for this organization, they have a beautiful thing going on here.

Projects

My dad is a pretty handy guy to have around, he is the kind of guy that can fix, build or make anything related a house, restoring/maintaining a car, boat, houseboat, RV and pretty much anything else.  Growing up our garage was like a mini Home Depot and my parents are the kind of people who will take on these projects themselves rather than hiring someone to do it for them.   I remember spending hours in the garage with my dad while he taught me how to change the oil in my car and we spent countless hours washing our cars, RV, boats and if I didn’t do something right or good enough he would make me do it again, and again until it was done correctly.  Of course I hated him for that at the time, but now I get it…  When I went off to college my dad sent along with me a tool bag complete with a power drill.  So those habits rubbed off on me.  Justin worked construction for a few summers and is pretty handy himself and likes to do things with his hands.  He also was hired by his parents friends as a kid to wash & detail their cars and he spent many hours working at his parents salon.  So we both were raised to be do it “yourselfers” and are always looking for the next project to do.

I have been wanting new carpet for a long time, pretty much since we bought our place.  We’ve done so many other projects around our house but the carpet never got replaced.  We decided that we would get new carpet when I got pregnant before the baby came…little did we know that would take 3 years…but the time is here and we started carpet shopping/research.  These house projects are dangerous because one thing always leads to another and we end up doing 7 projects when we intended to do one.  When we had the carpet guy over to give us a quote and measure out the square footage we mentioned that we didn’t necessarily need carpet in our vanity area of our bathroom because we were planning to put tile there.  Of course he suggested getting that done before the carpet was installed so we wouldn’t get the new carpet dirty, which lead to other things we wanted to get done before the carpet was installed, like moving electrical into the hallway, cleaning out the guest bedroom & closets, painting the nursery, etc…So the new carpet set off the domino effect of projects to get done.  Anyone who has done these kind of things knows that these projects ALWAYS take longer than expected.

First up was electrical…Our 2nd bedroom served as a guest room, storage place and office.  Since we got rid of pretty much everything in that room and closets so it could serve as a nursery, we needed to create some sort of office area for our computer, printer, etc… So we ripped out a built in cabinet that was in our hallway and put in a counter and added a smaller cabinet for office supplies and to house our printer/scanner, voila instant office!  the only problem was there was no electrical to plug everything in.  So we had an electrician come out and move some electrical into the office area and install the fixings in the ceiling of the nursery so we could hang a fan.  Done!

Next up was tile…as I mentioned the vanity area of our bathroom was carpeted, ewww, I know.  And the tile that was in the shower/toilet part of the bathroom was this really annoying rock tile that was impossible to keep clean.  Funny, because I remember the flier when we were buying our house and that was a selling point, “New Rock Tile in Bathrooms!!” I couldn’t wait to rip it up.  At first we planned to rip out the shower and replace that as well, but since there was some tricky plumbing involved we didn’t feel comfortable doing it all without the help of a professional.  We got some quotes from 3 different contractors and it was going to end up being a $5,000-6,000 project.  So we decided to leave the shower alone and just redo the floors.  We (Justin) ripped up the rock tile and carpet and thanks to my dad for letting us borrow his tile saw (from his mini Home Depot garage) we installed nice clean 12×24 subway tiles.  It made a world of difference!  Justin did most of the work on this project, I was his assistant handing him what he needed (including a beer here and there, we were having a heat wave!) and holding tile during some tricky cuts in the saw. Halfway through the project I told him I was feeling kind of guilty that I couldn’t help him with a lot of the heavy labor stuff, he smiled and said “That’s okay, you can repay me in a few months when you go into labor.”  Yep, that’s the kind of man I married 🙂  Done!

Then there was paint…Justin and I have pretty much painted our entire house literally from top to bottom.  Now being pregnant, I wasn’t too comfortable with being exposed to paint fumes for a long period of time, so Justin’s parents offered to come help and the three of them painted the nursery walls and hung a new fan while I cleaned out more stuff around the house. Done!

Finally, carpet…This was the one thing that didn’t require any work on our part, except it did.  We removed all the baseboards in our bedroom.  We had to pack up and move all the small things and everything that was at the bottom of our closets downstairs.  By now the nursery was empty so after carpeting that room, all the furniture in our bedroom was moved in there.  After the carpet was all in, we had to move everything back.  But it was SO worth it!  Done!

Start the nursery…After many trips to Babies R Us, Buy Buy Baby, online research and reading Baby Bargains we finally made a choice on a crib and dressers.  The main reason why we choose the one we did was because of the height of the dressers, all the ones we looked at were so short, since one dresser will also serve as a changing table I kept picturing us tall people bending over changing thousands of diapers and it made my back ache just thinking about it.  We came across a set that was much “taller” than the rest and I was excited to find a tall person’s dresser.  If you didn’t already know most baby furniture takes 8-13 weeks to be delivered, of course that was the case with the set we decided on.  With the crib, I didn’t mind waiting that long since the baby would be in our room for the first few months anyway, but I needed the dressers so I would have a place to put all the clothes and everything else we will be getting in the months to come.  So after some phone calls to Buy Buy Baby we were told that they had all 3 pieces in stock (yay!) so we didn’t have to wait 8-13 weeks, but we also needed to buy it right away before someone else did.  There was a hold on one dresser, so we waited a few days and they called and said that the other people didn’t want the dresser so all 3 pieces were ours and they would put our name on them and hold them for us for a week.  So we go to Buy Buy Baby the next day to confirm that they had everything and purchase it.  Like everything else, it was not an easy ordeal.  To make a long story short, they told us that they only had 1 dresser in stock, not the other dresser and they didn’t have the crib.  Of course we were frustrated since we were told on the phone that they had all 3 in stock and were on hold for us.  So after much back and forth looking in the back stock room and checking the inventory at another store a few hours away, we ended up with 3 people helping us including the manager.  After an hour and a half they “found” our crib in the back with our name on it so now we had a crib and one dresser.  So we negotiated buying the other dresser off the floor display since it was in good shape.  Justin was able to work out a deal and we had 20% off coupons for each item plus 10% off the dresser from the floor, we made arrangements to pick it up a few days later.  When we went to get the furniture, the dresser from the floor display was all packaged up in a box and at first we thought oh, how nice they packaged it up for us.  Then the manager came and told us that a new one came in sometime in the last few days and they gave us the new one (and we still had the 10% discount)!  So with a little help from some friends we now have furniture in the nursery. Done!

Making room for baby…I know the baby itself is just another person and will not take up that much space.  It’s everything that comes with the baby that I need to make room for!  We had an old bookshelf in the corner of our living room that I cleaned out and we got rid of, so now we have a good sized empty space.  We put up some shelves for the books and the space below is going to be for the swing and other baby toys, blankets, etc…I just need to get some baskets or some kind of dresser to house those things.

Other than some finishing touches to the nursery, the only other thing we need to get done is install new baseboards in our bedroom and bath. It has been a pretty fast-paced, hard-working few months, with countless trips to Goodwill, ACE Hardware, Home Depot and the dump, but now we are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. From now until the end of the year we have lots of fun things planned like baby showers, birthday parties, holiday parties, so I am glad we got all this done when we did. And everything looks great!

Here’s Apollo supervising Justin working on the tile.

Bye Bye 2nd Trimester

I had my follow up appointment yesterday and everything looks good, my blood pressure is normal (pretty surprising after the last few weeks we’ve had!), weight gain is normal (this is the most I’ve ever weighed in my life, let’s hope it all goes away quickly after the baby is born!), she measured my belly and we listened to his heartbeat.  Every time she moved the Doppler to find his heartbeat he would start kicking and punching as if he were saying “get that thing away from me!”  All is well…The end of next week I officially start my third trimester (!) how did that happen?  So that means I am due for my glucose screening test to check for gestational diabetes.  I’ve heard two different opinions about the sugary drink that is required for this test, most people absolutely despise it, others say it’s really not that bad.  I’ll let you know what I think.  I also have an ultrasound scheduled (Yay!  More pictures of baby!) to check to see where my placenta is (please pray that I don’t have full placenta previa).  And finally my blood type is O- (the good stuff!) which means I am Rh- which means I get a RhoGam shot in 2 weeks.  So these next few weeks will be busy with all those appointments.  I’ll keep you posted…

Now that my 2nd trimester is coming to an end, I want to make note of a few things before I begin my 3rd trimester.

  • Overall I do feel really good!
  • Sleeping is hard, it’s not so much getting up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night that bothers me, but it is the achiness of my back, hips and shoulders from sleeping on my side. And every time I roll over to change positions it is like wrestling with an alligator to reposition the 50 pillows around me and try not to kick the dog and wake up Justin in the process.  But it has helped me with getting up in the morning (I am typically not excited to get up in the AM) because it feels so much better to get up and move around.
  • I get tired a lot quicker now and we have lots of stairs in our house (30 steps from the garage to the top of the 2nd floor), and I am walking slower.
  • Bending over is not as easy as it used to be, I know that part is only going to get worse.  I went to Bed Bath and Beyond to get a step for the shower so I can put my leg up to shave.
  • I never had any crazy cravings, but am obsessed with fresh fruit and always have pineapple, watermelon, cantaloupe, grapes, apples, etc… handy to snack on.
  • Jamba Juice has been another craving of mine, very similar to the fresh fruit.  It is the one thing that saved me in my first trimester when I was battling the queasiness, and it is so refreshing during the hot summer days.
  • The one routine thing is I always have tangerines in bed before I go to sleep.  The dog sits at my side and very intensely stares at me while I am peeling and eating slice by slice of tangerines.
  • I giggle every time I need to get up off the couch because Justin has to pull me up.  I mean, I could do the side roll and push myself off (which is how I get out of bed) but it’s easier and more fun to let him pull me up. You should have seen us when we were shopping for recliner/rocking chairs, let’s just say Justin is getting his upper body workout pulling me up all the time.
  • I do have general aches and pains in my belly and back which is expected since everything is shifting, expanding and growing.
  • I have leg cramps all night long which also contributes to not sleeping well. I have pretty much resolved that I am not going to get a good nights sleep during the next 20 years or so, I am embracing it.
  • I miss my coffee.  And yes…I know coffee is fine to drink in moderation, my OB has told me that on more than one occasion.  But I had given up caffeine before we did IVF and I made the decision to keep that up until my 3rd trimester, I am waiting until the cooler fall weather to start drinking my coffee again. I admit I do have some of the first time pregnancy paranoia since we went though so much to get to this point, I don’t want to do anything that could potentially harm baby.

I know all this is going to intensify in the next few months, that is why I am running around like a madwoman right now to do as much as I can before that happens. I have had a pretty easy pregnancy so far and I am hoping that it stays that way. There are a lot of exciting things happening over the next few months with baby showers, holidays and getting the nursery ready!  It’s going to be fun!

Here’s my 26 week 5 day belly! XOXO

Sweet little girl

A friend of mine emailed me a few months ago and told me that a colleague of his was about to have her first baby and was looking for a reasonable photographer to do some newborn pictures and asked me if I would be interested.  I was excited but at the same time nervous since this is kind of a big deal, I am still in the learning process and I didn’t want to mess up their precious newborn photos.  It is one thing to take casual family photos of your friends that can be redone at anytime, but the importance of something like wedding pictures, or the small window for those newborn photos is not something that can be redone. But practice makes perfect and the only way I am going to get practice outside the comfort zone of my friends and family is if I put myself out there.  So I decided to do it, but I was honest with her and told her that I am not skilled in editing that makes the baby’s skin perfectly smooth and creamy like porcelain, but I would be happy to do what I know for a reasonable price.  She agreed and we waited for her baby girl to arrive.  In the meantime I had to make a trip to Home Goods (poor me, I know) to get some props (among other things I really didn’t need, or maybe I did).  Shortly after I got an email that her little girl had arrived and we set a date.  They are such a nice couple and their little girl was so sweet and cuddly, I really enjoyed my time with them. Mom is a physician and dad is an engineer, so we did a tribute to all their hard work in school. Wonder what she will grow up to be?
I remember doing the same thing while studying all night during college
Whenever she would get a little fussy, dad came to the rescue and knew exactly how to calm her down. You can bet she has worked her magic on him and will enjoy being daddy’s little girl.

I love capturing the little details, like the ears, nose and especially the toes

Mom emailed me and told me that they love the pictures and will be wanting more on her 1st birthday.  It made me so happy (and relived) that they were pleased.  So I guess I can say I have my first official client!