Flower Fields

(April 2018)

One thing that I’ve been wanting to do for years is go to the Carlsbad Flower Fields.  One of the perks of being a stay at home mom with young kids is you can do these kinds of things during the week when it is not as busy as the weekend.

It was a typical beautiful spring day in San Diego, so I packed snacks and loaded up the boys and we drove to Carlsbad.  When we arrived, I was shocked at how crowded the parking lot was and the line at the entrance was several blocks long! I drove around for a while looking for a place to park, and each time I passed the line, it seemed to be getting longer and longer.  I started getting a little skeptical, not necessarily because of the amount of people, but the challenge of keeping the boys occupied in the long line was not sounding so fun. So as I was driving around, I was talking to them and I told them there was a long line and nowhere to park and maybe we should come back another day.  They both said “Noooooo!”  So I told them if I could find a place to park, they needed to promise they would be good, patient little boys in line, and they promised they would and really wanted to go in.  So after 20 minutes of circling and waiting, I finally found a place to park.  When we got to the back of the line, I realized that they had footprints painted on the sidewalk that showed the path to the front.  The boys thought that was so cool and we made it a game of moving up and staying put on your own footprints.

It worked so well, until… we came up to the tractor…then the game was no longer fun and they were climbing and making tractor noises and playing in their own little world as I kept moving up in line.

I was almost to the front when I finally caught their attention and they came running to catch up with me.  These little monkeys were great in line and we finally made it in!

Since it is such a big place, it really didn’t feel that crowded.  The boys were handed “passports” that showed all the different places to visit where they could find stamps to stamp their passports.  They loved having something to work towards and It was neat because it took us to sections that we probably would not have visited or even known about.

About halfway through the mission of getting all the stamps in the passport, I asked the boys to stop in front of the fields so I could get some pictures since I did bring my camera.  First we had a little fun, and I asked them to give me a silly face.

Then I asked them to show me their muscles.

Then they were just being their usual silly selves

And then they actually took an interest in the flowers and started smelling them.

Then they wanted to go on the tractor ride.  It took us around the entire fields and up at the top we could see the ocean.

And they gave us an opportunity to get off and take pictures with the ocean in the background.

When we got back down the hill we got ice cream and visited all the other places to get the rest of the stamps in their passports. We went to the Christmas Poinsettia greenhouse, the candy land playground, the Orchid greenhouse (which was pretty amazing) and the boys favorite was the flower maze.

There were a couple times when they decided to turn and go in opposite directions through the maze, after regrouping and explaining that we all needed to work together and stay together, we found our way out. And we even took more time to stop and smell the flowers.

It was a fun day and so worth the fight to find a parking spot and the wait in the long line. And we will definitely go back again.

SD Orioles

(April 2018)

To follow the fall soccer season, Jacob wanted to try TBall in the spring.  TBall is a little more of a commitment than soccer was, but we had a great group of parents and coaches which made it a lot of fun!  Our team was the Orioles and just like soccer our colors were Orange and Black.  Being that this was TBall, it was a first experience for all the kids playing which meant there were no shortages of funny incidents.  There were plenty of kids who preferred to draw in the sand while out in the field instead of stand ready to catch the ball, or stare blankly ahead, picking their nose as the ball rolled in between their legs.  There were kids who threw the ball to 3rd base while the coaches are yelling for him to throw it to first, and my favorite was the boy who kept running to third base instead of first every time he hit the ball.  As we neared the end of the season, the kids really started to get the hang of the game.

After a few weeks of just practices, we finally had our first offical game, and the boys were so excited.

Jacob LOVES to be chased, and asks me a hundred times a day to chase him.  It used to be a fun game to play with him, until the day came when I could no longer catch him.  He is fast!  So when learning to play TBall, we told Jacob that he needs to run the bases like he is being chased by the ball. That became his favorite part of the game.

I can tell he’s concentrating here since he’s sticking his tongue out 🙂

High fives from the coach.

There is just something about TBall/Baseball that gives me that warm fuzzy feeling.  Honestly, I don’t follow professional baseball and I think it is pretty boring to watch on TV.  But going to a live game (especially with cute kids playing) is a lot of fun.

Then there is this guy…

When we were buying Jacob’s bat and glove, we had to get him a glove too.  So when he was not running around with the other little siblings during practice and games, he was practicing his own technique for when he is old enough to play.

And he was Jacob’s biggest fan

And mom and dad too

Here’s to Americas favorite pastime!

 

It’s a Race!

(September 2017)

Jacob had been cruzin on his balance bike for a couple of years now and I knew he was ready to upgrade to a big boy pedal bike.  So we started taking him to a nearby park that has walkways around the playground/tennis courts/baseball fields so he could practice.  It really only took 2 times of doing that and one day in our backyard, he just took off on the bike by himself.

He rides around our backyard all the time and I try to take them to the park to ride at least one a week.

And Dylan has been upgraded to the balance bike now

And they both love to ride and ride and ride

And I love seeing him sticking his tongue out when he is concentrating on doing something.  It reminds me of my dad 🙂

And like pretty much everything else with these two, it’s a race! Let’s see who can go the fastest around the park.

At first, it used to bother Dylan that Jacob was always passing him up.  But now he doesn’t care and takes off on his own adventure on his balance bike.

In fact, he is getting pretty good at it now and I’m sure he will be getting onto a pedal bike sooner than later.

And in between riding sessions, they take breaks on the playground.

And Jacob surprised me on this day when he told me he could do this all by himself.

And he did! Back and forth, back and forth.  It was one of those days when I really realized, how much he is growing up!

Sticking his tongue out again…

And you would think spending a few hours at the park, playing and riding bikes would wear them out, right? Not so much, these two have endless energy!

I’m Back!

So while I was working on my last few posts about our trip to Oregon last year, I started having some problems with the Admin section of this blog.  I could not upload any pictures, I kept getting error messages and everything I tried didn’t work.  It was so frustrating because I only have two hours a day, two days a week without the boys to get things done.  And for a while all that time was spent trying to figure out what was wrong and attempting to fix it with no luck.  I called an IT person I knew and he couldn’t help me.  Then we started the addition on our house and that consumed every spare moment I had, so the blog was pushed even farther back.  After the addition project settled down, I was wondering if it was even worth trying to get back into this.  I often wonder if it is a good idea, in terms of my kids safety to even share these stories online.  Even though it is only going to a small group of subscribers of family and friends, it is still out there.  I am always conscious of what I share and keep things general and try not to give out too much detailed information.  I had a conversation with Justin and asked him what he thought.  He told me he thought it was worth starting again.

And once I realized I couldn’t upload pictures to my blog, I stopped taking pictures, and I didn’t like that.  Which reminded me of a few of the reasons why I started this in the first place.  Photography has been a longtime hobby of mine, and if I don’t have somewhere to share the pictures I am taking, then what is the point of taking pictures.  Also, the pictures I am taking are telling the story of my boys childhood.  Whether or not they will be interested in this when they are older, it is something for me.  I love being able to look back over the past 5 years and remember things I forgot, or see how much they have changed and that makes me happy, and so thankful that I captured that moment in time.  I don’t know how long I will continue to do this, I know as the boys get older they are not going to want all these details of their life shared. But until then, I decided to keep it up.

So that meant several very long, frustrating phone conversations with tech people.  After no resolution with their advice, they finally gave me an option to pay an $80 fee and they would troubleshoot and fix the problem.  48 hours later, it was working again! Hallelujah!  I was skeptical and afraid that it was going to “break” again, so I quickly uploaded all the pictures I had and started writing some stories, before something could go wrong…but so far all seems well.  Since it has been almost a year (!) I obviously can’t get completely caught up.  But I do have some things I want to post about the last year, before moving on.  So a lot of the posts may be more picture heavy than story since I’m just scrambling to get up to date.  So here goes, first order of business…I FINALLY updated the header! Although these pictures are already 7 months old…at least it is not just baby pictures of Jacob and Dylan has a presence.

Be back soon with more!

And then he turned TWO

I am excited that I am getting this post done in the same month as the event happened!  A few weeks ago, Dylan turned TWO!  And he was so excited about it!  That morning, after dropping Jake off at school, I took him to Krispy Kreme for a doughnut treat.

That afternoon while he was napping, Jacob and I made his birthday cake and wrapped up his presents.  When daddy came home he had a birthday balloon from Nonnie and Jacob declared that it was time for Dylan to open his presents.

We had some friends in town that were staying with us, so we all enjoyed a nice dinner outside before it was time for cake.

CHEEEEEEEESE!

Then it came time to blow out his candle

Ever since his birthday Dylan has been walking around singing “Happy Dylan…Happy Dylan” which is his own version of the birthday song.

I think they liked the cake

When we moved, it became quite a trek to visit the boys pediatrician, but I liked him, so I kind of lagged on finding a new one.  After talking to a fellow mom who is also one of the doctors I used to work with, she recommend someone whose office is really close to our house.  So we had Dylan’s 2 year old check up with their new pediatrician, who I really like.  He is a healthy boy and checked out great!  When talking about how tall he is, his doctor said that both our boys are projected to be at least 6 feet tall and Dylan is likely to be 6′ 2-3″.  Maybe we will have a basketball player on our hands, he is our athlete after all.  Dylan is currently 3 feet tall and weighs 29lbs 9.6oz.  He did get one shot and the nurse was fantastic and SUPER fast, Dylan didn’t even have a chance to think about it and start crying, another plus for the new doctors office!

Dylan very quickly grew out of the baby phase and is more and more independent every day.  He is my hot and cold kid.  He goes from being happy, silly, playing to throwing a complete fit in just a matter of seconds.  We are experiencing the terrible twos this time around.  But he is also such a love and a snuggler.  He usually doesn’t want to just sit in my lap, he has to have my arms completely wrapped around him like a harness.  He often wants me to hold him or carry him around and it is getting really hard to do that for extended periods of time since he is so heavy!  He is my chowhound and will eat pretty much anything, except for veggies.  Most days I make a double serving of my lunch because he often hijacks whatever I am eating for himself, even though he already had his lunch.  He has 3 of his two year molars in so we are almost done with the teething pains.  He still adores Jacob and when they are not fighting, they really have a great time playing together.  He is a parrot and has been copying everything we say, and picking up new words everyday and stringing a few words together.  Especially with the amount of talking his brother does, I can’t imagine how many words he has absorbed already.  If we ask Jacob a question, after Jacob answers us, Dylan automatically gives his answer too.  He will not be left out of any conversation.  His favorite song is Baa Baa Black Sheep and sings it all day and requests it every single night before bedtime.  This is my kid who is happy to have his picture taken, so I give you his 2 year old picture with Giraffe and Woolly Mammoth.

Happy Birthday to my sweet blue eyed boy!

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18 Months

I often say I feel like I was robbed of Dylan’s babyhood.  He grew up so fast, physically and developmentally that I forget he is not even 2 years old yet.  In fact, in November he turned 18 months, and he does not look or act like he’s only a year and a half old.

A lot has happened in the past 6 months since he turned one. While he had been taking a few steps here and there, a week after his first birthday he was walking.  And really didn’t stay in the walking phase for too long before he began running, everywhere…

He has been a teething machine, he now has a total of 10 teeth, including 3 molars.  Teething didn’t really seem to bother Jacob too much, but it really affects Dylan.  He suffers from the pain, has a loss of appetite, fevers, crankiness, etc…

Dylan has an appetite!  Of course his food preferences are completely different from his brother’s.  While Jacob loves his yogurt, fruits of all kinds, some veggies, cheeses and sweets, he is not a fan of meat.  Dylan however will eat chicken, tri-tip, salami, bacon, pasta and fruits.  But is not a fan of yogurt, cheeses or sweets.  So our meals are either diverse, or have a little of something to satisfy everyone, or one kid just doesn’t eat as much as the other.

I remember when Jacob was a baby I was thankful that I never had to worry about him hitting, pushing or biting other kids, he never did that.  Dylan on the other hand did go through the hitting and pushing phase, so I had to really watch him when playing with others.  On that topic, which really doesn’t help that issue…his favorite thing to do is wrestle with his brother.  At first I was always concerned about Dylan since he was still a “baby” and didn’t want him to get too banged up.  But then I realized that he can easily hold his own and he is usually the instigator constantly tackling Jacob and taking him down.  I quickly grow tired of playing referee and as long as no one gets too rough and they are in a safe spot, I let them wrestle.  And they love it!

He is really starting to show more interest in sign language now and has been picking up signs as fast as we can show him.  His vocabulary is really starting to pick up a little speed as well.  He loves music and asks me to play some every time we are driving in the car.  His favorite song as a baby was the Wheels on the Bus and it has now become 10 Little Indians.  His favorite word right now is GO!  Jake and I often count 1…2…3… and pause for Dylan to shout GO!  Every time I back out of our garage Dylan yells GO!  He is learning about the traffic signals and when the light turns green he yells GO!!

Justin taught him how to say football.  One day he surprised me when we were walking past the TV display at Costco and they were recapping a game on the news and Dylan shouts FOOTBALL!  I have a feeling he is going to be our athlete.  The boy is always running and anytime he is carrying something he carries it in a proper football hold. he has great hand/eye coordination and at 18 months old he has a pretty solid golf swing complete with a follow through.  We never taught him that, he just picked up a toy golf club and started hitting every ball he could find. Definitely got that gene from his daddy!

From the beginning Dylan has never been easily distracted.  If he is upset about something it takes a lot of distraction techniques and time before he gets over it.  He is my strong willed child!  However, underneath all those mischievous grins, sneaky ways, loud and rambunctious personality, he is my cuddle bug.  He gives serious hugs and will not let go.  My mom says I used to hang on her like a monkey when I was little that sometimes she didn’t even have to hold on to me since I was holding on so tight.  Dylan does the same thing.  And to add to the hugs, he will stare in my eyes and give me kisses and kisses and kisses.  He is a little love! And he’s also a cheeseball… When taking a picture of him, he scrunches up his face and shows all his teeth and says a long and drawn out CHEEEEEEESE.  You’ll see in the picture below.

Everyone says the second baby is easier than the first since you know better about what to expect.  Which is true in a lot of ways…however, there is no way to predict their personalities and mannerisms.  In my experience, so far, both boys have been pretty different in almost everything.  And I kind of love that!  Honestly, I can’t believe this is an 18 month post for Dylan, not because I can’t believe how old he is, but because I can’t believe that he is ONLY 18 months old!

His 18 month birthday was November 8th, Election Day, so he wore his American flag shirt to mark the occasion.

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And I thought the problem with the subscribers not getting email notifications was resolved, but it seems that no one got a notification about my last post about Halloween (click here to see it).  So I contacted them again and am waiting for resolution…Hoping this one comes through.

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Bates Nut Farm

A few years ago when Jacob was a baby, I went with some girlfriends and their littles to Bates Nut Farm.  In the fall they turn their farm into a pumpkin patch with pony rides, a petting zoo, tractor hay rides, a corn maze and other fun activities.  At the time Jacob was a little too young to really “enjoy” it all and every year I kept saying I wanted to go back.  This year I finally made it.  Our schedule is busy as usual, and there is only one day during the week that we don’t have any kind of scheduled thing like school, swim lessons, etc…So that day usually is filled with a playdate or doctor’s appointments, or errands that need to be taken care of.  About a month ago on that day, we had nothing planned.  And it wasn’t until about 8:00 that morning when I was trying to figure out how we were going to spend the day that I decided we were going to go to Bates Nut Farm.  I got the boys dressed, packed up some food, loaded up the car and grabbed my camera.  It is about a 30 minute drive into the mountains from our house which made for a nice leisurely drive to drink my coffee while singing along with the with kids music playing in the car.  I like to get to these places right when they open to avoid the crowds and the afternoon heat.  And this day was perfect!

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After saying HI to the farmers unloading all the pumpkins, they started searching for the perfect one.

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Dylan thought they needed some re-arranging and started moving them from one side to the other

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Then Jacob wanted to feed the goats, so all 3 of us each got a cup full of food and went to the petting zoo. Both boys loved it and laughed when the goats ate out of their hands.

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Then the lady working there offered to take our picture, and we still had food on us.  So the goats kept trying to climb into my lap along with Dylan to eat it up!

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Then we hopped on the tractor hayride for a spin around the farm.

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And Jacob talked during the entire ride, commenting on everything he saw

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And Dylan thought it was pretty fun

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Then we walked around the stores and bought a few treats.  We went over to where all the animals were and looked at chickens, pigs, llamas, turkeys and more goats before heading home for lunch.  I love those spontaneous adventures with my boys!

Feeding Dylan

I know I’ve been kind of sporadic here lately and I don’t like that.  It boils down to the fact that I have no time during the day to work on this blog and by the time the boys are in bed for the night, I am too tired and just want to sit and talk to my husband or watch a TV show or scroll through my Facebook feed or simply just sit and stare at nothing and enjoy the quiet.  I love this blog though and don’t plan on stopping.  It is my favorite way to capture the story of our lives, especially since I haven’t touched Jacob’s baby book since he turned 2 and I did buy one for Dylan…but that’s as far as I’ve gotten.  I’ve been feeling the urge to start picking up my camera again every once in a while.  So one day after dropping off Jacob at preschool, I didn’t really have any urgent errands to take care of and rather than browsing the aisles of Target and spending $200 on stuff I didn’t know I needed, I decided to do something fun with Dylan.  So we went to feed the ducks.  Before we left the house, at the last minute I ran back in to grab my camera and I am so glad I did.

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According to Dylan though…we were there to feed him and just look at the ducks.

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Then turn around and walk back to get more

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I showed him how to break up the bread and throw it to the ducks, and he looked at me and smiled, and even laughed, he thought it was funny.img_7611ed img_7613ed

And he kept on eating the bread, while I threw some pieces out to the ducks in between pictures.

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When Dylan’s tummy was full, we walked over to the playground where he did about 50+ laps up the stairs and down the slide.

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I love this little goofball

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It was a fun date with my littlest man.

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The Dishwasher v.2

Dylan’s favorite thing to help me with these days is unloading the dishwasher.  I remember doing a post about Jacob helping me unload the dishes and when I went back to look for it, I realized it was exactly 2 years ago!  And looking at those pictures of Jacob when he was so little was a fun trip down memory lane.  Now, 2 years later, I have a new little helper.

No matter where he is in the house, when I open the dishwasher, he hears the click and immediately makes his way into the kitchen.

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And starts unloading things,

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and working on trying to get the bigger objects through the small spaces in the rack.

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And he does it all with a smile!

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Sometimes he finds some unique, interesting objects

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‘So mom, what do you call this thing?’

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Ahhhh, this whisk will keep me entertained for a while!

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The top rack is always a bit challenging, since it is not easy for him to reach from the ground.

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His solution….just climb on up!

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Pretty sure appliance companies could use this picture as an example of what NOT to do to your dishwasher.

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Soon I need to start teaching him where everything goes so he can actually put stuff away for me!

First Haircut

There is something about giving a baby a haircut that suddenly makes them look older.  With both boys I dreaded cutting their hair in an attempt to keep the baby look for as long as I could.  Jacob was 15 months old when he got his first real haircut, I finally gave in after people started mistaking him for a girl!  Since he was born, Dylan has had little trims around the front and his ears to keep it out of his face, but not a real haircut.  He has more hair than Jacob did at this age and it is darker.  It was getting long in the back and it was starting to do the side flip thing.  So I gave in and decided it was time to cut his hair.  A few days later my mom came to visit, after breakfast one morning we took Dylan’s highchair outside and armed with a spray bottle, comb, scissors, things to keep Dylan distracted and of course me with the camera. Dylan got his first haircut.

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Not to be left out of the fun, Jacob wanted to help, so he decided he would be in charge of the spray bottle.

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And by helping in his mind, means spraying and saturating anything and everything with water, including grandma.

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Then he moved onto Dylan’s feet.

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Grandma had her work cut out for her trying to cut a squirmy baby’s hair who was getting his feet tickled by all the sprays from the water bottle.

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Slowly Dylan started looking a little less babyish and more little boyish.

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Thank you grandma for doing a great job!

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